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9 Slang Terms That Defined the 1950s

Do you know what yakking or a barn burner is? Take a walk down memory lane and rediscover the slang that defined a decade.

by Rachel Gresh
Circa 1950s two male executives conversing

The 1950s were a time of pop culture revolution in the United States. Hollywood stars such as Elizabeth Taylor and James Dean captivated audiences on the silver screen, while the golden age of television brought families together each evening at home for I Love Lucy, Leave It to Beaver, and The Twilight Zone. In music, rock ’n’ roll dominated the airwaves, with stars such as Elvis Presley, Chuck Berry, and Little Richard rising to fame.

At the same time, a post-World War II economic boom fueled the growth of American suburbs, and youth culture flourished, marked by poodle skirts and pomaded hair. Not surprisingly, the decade also gave rise to some of the most memorable slang of the 20th century. Let’s take a look back at how people used to yak in the 1950s.

Yak

“Yak” doesn’t refer to just an animal. In the 1950s, it became a verb for persistent talking or chatter, as in, “Stop yakking and get back to work!” It often suggests time-wasting, nagging, or rambling. And while its exact origin is unclear, it may be connected to the 19th-century Australian slang “yacker,” meaning “talk” or “conversation.” It gained popularity with “Yakety Yak,” the 1958 hit song by the R&B group the Coasters. 

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Bird Dog

Today, to bird-dog is to watch someone or something closely. It’s derived from the 19th-century noun “bird dog,” a hunting dog trained to retrieve game. By the 1930s, the noun had taken on a slang meaning as someone who tries to steal another person’s date. It surged in popularity during the ’50s, thanks in part to the Everly Brothers’ hit song of the same name: “Johnny is a joker that’s been tryin’ to steal my baby (He’s a bird dog).” Before long, it broadened to a verb for seeking out business opportunities, especially new clients or talent.

Sock Hop

In the 1950s, teenagers kicked off their shoes and hopped around gymnasium floors in their socks at dance parties known as “sock hops.” Students were required to remove their hard-soled shoes before entering the dance floor so they didn’t scuff up the floors. The first sock hops emerged during the 1940s, but by the ’50s, they were a staple of American teen culture, featuring rock ’n’ roll music and the latest dance moves. As Danny and the Juniors said, “All the cats and the chicks can get their kicks at the hop.”

Dreamboat

In the 1980s, we might have called an attractive man a hunk, and today, a Gen Zer might have their eyes on a snack. But during the 1950s, the go-to equivalent for a handsome, charming man was “dreamboat.” The term reached its peak as swoon-worthy actors and rock ’n’ roll singers stole the hearts of audiences — think James Dean, Marlon Brando, Elvis Presley, and Ricky Nelson. It even appeared as the title of a 1952 comedy film starring Clifton Webb and Ginger Rogers.

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Peepers

Peepers” has been slang for “eyes” since the early 18th century, but it enjoyed a resurgence during the 1940s and ’50s to refer to eyes, eyeglasses, or even sunglasses: “Can you read this? I forgot my peepers!” The term was popularized by the 1938 song “Jeepers Creepers,” famously performed by Louis Armstrong: “Jeepers Creepers, where’d ya get those peepers? / Jeepers Creepers, where’d ya get those eyes?” In the television industry, the hit ’50s sitcom Mr. Peepers followed the daily life of a mild-mannered science teacher known for his glasses.

Ragtop

In 1950s slang, a ragtop was a convertible car with a soft, fabric roof. The term was popularized in hot-rodding culture, distinguishing these cars from conventional hardtop convertibles, which were sometimes called flip-tops. “Ragtop” first appeared around 1952 and quickly became used among car enthusiasts and teens alike.

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Made in the Shade

To have it made in the shade is to be in a very easy or comfortable position, typically in reference to lifestyle: “After winning the lottery, they have it made in the shade.” The phrase evokes the relief of resting in the shade rather than working in the hot sun. Not much is known about its origin, but it may be rooted in an old children’s rhyme: “ice-cold lemonade, made in the shade, stirred with a spade, by an old maid.” Regardless, in the 1950s it became a cheerful way to describe good fortune.

Beatnik

A beatnik is someone who participated in a social movement of artistic self-expression during the 1950s and into the 1960s. The term quickly became slang for any young, artistic person who rejected conventional society. It was coined in 1958 by journalist Herb Caen and was sometimes used humorously or critically. It drew from the beat generation, originally referring to a weariness with society, but it was later associated with rhythm and jazz music. Its suffix, “-nik,” is a product of the Sputnik space craze, derived from Russian and meaning “a person or thing associated with or involved in.”

Barn Burner

A barn burner is something especially exciting or interesting, especially in sports, though the term is much older than its athletic usage. In the late 19th century, it was a political term referring to a progressive faction of the New York Democratic Party. It referred to an old story about a farmer who burned down his barn to rid it of rats, implying taking extreme measures to reach a goal. By the 1930s, it had taken on a figurative sense, and throughout the 1940s and ’50s, it was commonly used in sports journalism to describe noteworthy events. Today, it might also be used to describe an energetic performance, such as a speech. 

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5 MIN READ

7 Mental Health Buzzwords You May Be Misusing

With more access than ever before to self-help content, we’ve begun to incorporate “therapy speak” into everyday conversation — but is its popularity weakening the true meaning of these terms?

by Rachel Gresh
Therapist working with patient young woman in office

Once confined to clinical settings, therapy words such as “trigger” and “trauma” crop up everywhere these days, from morning talk shows to casual conversations and social media. According to a recent survey by the mental health clinic Thriveworks, 95% of Americans reported hearing so-called therapy speak in everyday life. This may help normalize mental health awareness, which is a good thing. But at the same time, using these words in casual contexts can diminish the seriousness of certain conditions or lead to the misuse of important mental health concepts. 

While it’s typically OK to use these terms in everyday conversation, be mindful of who you are speaking to and how you are using certain words. Here’s a breakdown of some of the most popular therapy speak used in everyday life, along with what these terms really mean.

Trauma

Imagine flipping through old photos with a friend when they laugh and say, “I cannot relive the trauma of my senior prom dress!” While clearly said in jest, this kind of usage reflects a larger trend: “Trauma” has become shorthand for anything embarrassing, awkward, or unpleasant.

Clinically, however, the American Psychological Association (APA) defines “trauma” as a disturbing experience that causes “significant fear, helplessness, dissociation, confusion, or other disruptive feelings.” These events might include serious accidents, violence, war, or natural disasters, but people can also experience trauma in their everyday lives, which may cause lasting effects on their mental health and daily functioning.

Self-care

Self-care,” in medical and mental health contexts, refers to essential daily activities — such as eating, dressing, and grooming — that can be managed independently. In recent years, however, this term has expanded significantly to encompass any action taken to improve mental, emotional, or physical health.

Social media influencers, for example, use “self-care” to describe their wellness routines, spa days, and shopping trips. In this context, self-care involves treating yourself or doing something indulgent as a reward. In modern slang, if it makes you happy, it’s self-care, though this usage obscures the term’s clinical meaning.

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OCD

You’ve probably heard someone say, “I’m so OCD about my desk” or “She’s OCD about her coffee order.” In everyday speech, “OCD” is often incorrectly used to describe extreme neatness, organization, or particularity in personal preferences.

However, OCD, obsessive-compulsive disorder, is actually a clinically diagnosed condition characterized by intrusive and distressing thoughts, called obsessions. These cause people to repeat behaviors or mental acts — known as compulsions — to reduce anxiety. The disorder can be all-consuming and very disruptive to daily life, and the casual use of “OCD” undermines a serious mental health condition.

Toxic

Like “OCD,” “toxic” is an overextended term that has been weakened in everyday conversation. In therapy speak, toxic people are consistently difficult, demanding, and even hostile. Similarly, toxic relationships are often one-sided, supporting only one person’s needs. These people and situations can involve manipulation, disrespect, and even emotional harm or abuse.

In everyday parlance, however, “toxic” is a catchall for anything unpleasant — from difficult co-workers to minor disagreements. But having one argument with your sibling about vacation isn’t a truly toxic situation. Often, its use also oversimplifies situations. If you say, “My boss is so toxic,” are they actually toxic, or do they just not communicate effectively? Nuance is important when implementing this term.

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Trigger

Most casual uses of “trigger” involve minor irritations. For example, a flight gets canceled or a manager calls a last-minute Friday meeting, and those involved complain that they feel triggered. While these annoyances may cause anxiety or upset, that doesn’t fit the therapy version of “trigger.” In clinical settings, a trigger is a more serious phenomenon that those with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) struggle with.

By the APA’s definition, a trigger is a stimulus — such as an anniversary, a sensory cue, or even violence in the news — that elicits a reaction. These events can remind a person with PTSD of a memory from a traumatic experience, resulting in negative mental and physical symptoms.

Boundary

Whether in the context of the workplace or dating advice, “boundary” is a buzzword. Today, people often say they’re setting boundaries when reacting to others’ behavior. For example, abruptly ending a friendship over delayed text responses may be framed as “setting a boundary,” but it can also reflect avoidance rather than healthy communication.

Originally, “boundary” had a strictly psychological definition: something that helps a person set realistic limits on participation in a relationship or activity. It’s about what you will and won’t accept, and how you’ll react when those lines are crossed. A true boundary may be turning your phone to “Do Not Disturb” in the evenings to better your mental health. You might communicate boundaries by telling someone that if they do a certain thing (such as show up late), you will respond with a certain behavior (such as leaving without them). A boundary is something you manage through your own behavior in a consistent, self-respecting way.

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Gaslight

“Gaslighting” means “to psychologically manipulate someone over a period of time.” It can cause a person to second-guess their thoughts, memories, and even perception of reality. Say a friend promises to talk about an argument later, but when the time comes, they deny that the conversation or argument ever happened. This is an example of gaslighting; it can make you question your own memory of the event, which can be deeply upsetting if it happens repeatedly.

In modern slang, people incorrectly apply this term to everyday disagreements, as in, “He said he didn’t like the movie. He’s gaslighting me!” True gaslighting distorts reality; it isn’t about differing opinions. The misuse of this term — and other therapy speak — can make it hard to determine whether the speaker is referring to the clinical or casual definition.

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5 MIN READ

7 Fairy Tale Words Everyone Uses

Stories filled with magic are a part of childhood, and they influence the way we speak in adulthood. When we reference fairy-tale lore, we’re bringing a bit of that magic into our conversations.

by Julia Rittenberg
Knight in shining armor saving a princess

Fairy tales are often treated as simple childhood stories, but their influence extends far beyond one’s early years. The language and characters embedded in these tales continue to shape our everyday speech into adulthood, offering vivid shorthand for complex ideas. From expressions of transformation and luck to ideals of love and justice, fairy-tale language remains deeply woven into how people communicate.

Because these stories are introduced so early, their imagery and phrasing tend to linger in the collective lexicon. Idioms drawn from fairy tales frequently center on themes of hospitality, creation, and morality. Many of these fairy-tale expressions have become so familiar that they appear in daily conversation without much thought to their origins.

Goldilocks

In “The Story of the Three Bears,” a young girl named Goldilocks goes into the bears’ home and eats their food, sits in their chairs, and sleeps in their beds, testing each individual bear’s belongings to find the perfect fit. The story was originally published in 1918 in English Fairy Tales by Flora Annie Steel, who adapted the fable from both oral and written storytelling, and incorporated fanciful illustrations by Arthur Rackham. 

Today when someone talks about a Goldilocks situation, they’re referring to finding the perfect fit. Scientists have adopted the term as “Goldilocks zone,” referring to the distance from a star that will likely contain a planet with water. Earth exists in the Goldilocks, or habitable, zone from the sun. 

Spin Straw Into Gold

This idiom comes from the tale of Rumpelstiltskin, first published in 1812 in a volume of Brothers Grimm fairy tales. In the German story, a miller’s daughter is challenged by the king to turn straw into gold. She’s desperate to complete the task but at a loss as to how, until a strange, impish man shows up and offers to help her if she’ll give him something in return. This happens three times, with escalating promises to Rumpelstiltskin, before the king is satisfied. The story goes on from there, with various endings depending on the version, but the king’s impossible task is consistent across all of them. Today the concept of turning straw into gold has been adopted to mean turning something ordinary or useless into something extraordinary. 

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Knight in Shining Armor

Knights who rescue swooning maidens have been a fixture of chivalric stories since medieval times. But the exact “knight in shining armor” wording appeared later, in a 1790 poem by Henry Pye: “No more the knight, in shining armour dress’d, / Opposes to the pointed lance his breast.” In modern parlance, the knight is someone who swoops in to rescue someone else without worrying about consequences. The concept of a knight in shining armor is usually presented in a romantic context, with a dashing suitor arriving just in time to save the day. 

Midas Touch 

The tale of King Midas (a real historical figure) has been transformed into a thing of legend. In the myth, the Greek god Dionysus gives Midas the power to turn everything he touches to gold, but the king soon comes to regret it. Today, someone who is said to have the “Midas touch” is able to make money in any and every situation. However, it may be a double-edged sword: Midas couldn’t even eat without changing his food into gold. 

Fairy-Tale Ending

Many fairy tales present moral lessons and include questionable endings for the characters. But in the modern perspective, a fairy-tale ending is something inherently positive. This phrase references the end of romantic stories such as “Sleeping Beauty” or “Cinderella,” where the chivalrous prince marries the right woman. While in real life a fairy-tale ending is not really an ending — a relationship continues on after the wedding, for example — the concept of a fairy-tale ending means there’s a positive outcome for everyone.  

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Cinderella Story

In the story of Cinderella, a poor girl forced into servitude for her family gets plucked out of obscurity by a prince. It’s a common trope for romance novels and movies, and the phrase “Cinderella story” has come to apply to any love story where there’s a big social class difference between the lovers. In sports parlance, a Cinderella story is one where the underdog rises up to win the day — for example, when a low-ranked team wins against a favorite to progress in the March Madness basketball tournament.  

Turn Into a Pumpkin

This idiom also comes directly from the plot of the Cinderella fairy tale, originally published under the name “The Little Glass Slipper” by Charles Perrault in 1697. In the story, Cinderella’s fairy godmother helps her get ready for the royal ball and warns her that she has to leave by midnight or her dress will revert to rags and her carriage will turn into a pumpkin. In a modern context, the idiom references wanting to leave a party at the right time so as not to overstay your welcome. Someone who is tired and wants to go home might claim they are “turning into a pumpkin.” 

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2 MIN READ

Why Is a ‘Nest Egg’ Tied to Money?

While the phrase “nest egg” originally had to do with birds, its modern use is more metaphorical. Here’s a look at the origins of this monetary term.

by Bennett Kleinman
Egg in Nest with Thousands of Dollars on Table

A nest egg is “a fund of money accumulated as a reserve,” often set aside for long periods of time and invested so it grows along the way. This fund can be feathered with high-yield savings accounts, retirement accounts, and certificates of deposit, all of which go toward helping people achieve long-term financial goals. But before “nest egg” related to personal finances, it had a more literal meaning in the context of poultry farms.

The original definition for “nest egg” was “a natural or artificial egg left in a nest especially to induce a hen to continue to lay there.” This is a farming technique that dates back to the 14th century. Farmers would place decoy eggs in nests to attract hens, thereby encouraging them to efficiently produce more plentiful amounts of eggs.

By 1686, the meaning of “nest egg” had evolved to be used in the financial context that we so closely associate it with today. According to the Oxford English Dictionary, an early citation is found in correspondence between philosopher John Locke and his friend Edward Clarke. The letter read, “The rest, I perceive, he is not trouble should remain as a nest egg till a farther occasion,” referring to an amount of money that shouldn’t be touched until a further date. It’s worth noting that this letter wasn’t widely published until 1927, so it probably didn’t play much of a role in popularizing the phrase. However, it still serves as early evidence of the phrase being used in its monetary context.

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How the phrase evolved from decoy eggs to retirement accounts isn’t entirely certain, but there’s a natural connection between the former and the latter. Placing decoy eggs in a nest could lead to bountiful gains down the line, which is exactly what people hope happens when they put money into their 401(k)s.

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2 MIN READ

Why Is Something Good the ‘Bee’s Knees’?

Calling something the “bee’s knees” means that it’s absolutely fantastic. But that wasn’t always the case, especially when the term was first coined in the 17th century.

Bee hive shot close-up in the summer on an apiary

The term “bee’s knees” raises two questions: Do bees even have knees? And where the heck did this phrase originate? To answer the first question, bees do have jointed legs, though to call those joints “knees” isn’t exactly correct. But biology has never stood in the way of a good rhyme, which may help explain the phrase in question. Today, it’s defined by Merriam-Webster as “an excellent or much liked person or thing.” But it originally meant something very different when first used during the 17th century.

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, early uses of “bee’s knees” implied something small, insignificant, or essentially nonexistent — much like the so-called knees of an actual bee. This remained the prevailing definition until 1920, when “bee’s knees” took on the more positive connotation we now associate with the phrase. But if you’re hoping for a simple explanation as to why, we don’t exactly have one.

One theory posited by entomologist Richard Jones is that “bee’s knees” took inspiration from the talented legs of dancer Bee Jackson, who helped popularize the Charleston dance craze in the 1920s. But linguist Gary Martin suggests that its origins are simpler, and that people more likely adapted it because of its jaunty, rhyming nature.

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In addition to “bee’s knees,” there are several other animal-themed phrases that were coined in the 1920s to describe something excellent:  “flea’s eyebrows,” “cat’s pajamas,” and “canary’s tusks,” just to name a few. These all appear to be nonsensical, leading us to believe there wasn’t true logic behind the shift in “bee’s knees,” but it was a fun thing to say.

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What’s the Real Story Behind ‘Turning a Blind Eye’?

Sometimes it’s easiest to drown out the noise and ignore the goings-on around you. When you do, you may be “turning a blind eye.” Here’s the story behind why we say that.

by Jennifer A. Freeman
woman lying on the floor and covering her eyes

There are many ways in which people feign ignorance. Someone might close their eyes, stick their fingers in their ears, and shout, “La la la!” until the problem disappears. Another will merely turn their head and walk away. In either case, the person is metaphorically turning a blind eye.

To turn a blind eye means “to refuse to see; be oblivious.” It’s essentially pretending like you have no clue what’s happening, even when the issue is overt. The expression is based on the premise that if you’re blind and can’t see, you can feign ignorance and act unaware of what’s going on. Some people credit the saying to a popular figure from British military history, and while he may have played a role in popularizing it, he didn’t coin it.

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the earliest evidence of “blind eye” appears in a 1698 collection of religious essays by author John Norris: “To turn the deaf Ear, and the blind Eye to all those Pomps and Vanities of the World which we renounc’d at our Baptism.” The phrase “to turn a deaf ear” specifically means “to refuse to listen.”

Many of the earliest examples paired “blind eye” with “deaf ear”; it wasn’t until the 19th century that “blind eye” was largely used on its own. 

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That brings us to British naval commander Horatio Nelson, to whom many credit this saying, for very literal reasons. While he didn’t coin the phrase, his purported actions helped popularize it. During the 1801 Battle of Copenhagen, Nelson — who claimed to be blind in one eye — wanted to press on, so he acted as if he couldn’t see a signal telling his troops to disengage. An 1809 biography claimed he said, “I have only one eye — and I have a right to be blind sometimes… I really do not see the signal.” 

However, the plot thickens from there: Nelson had indeed lost an arm and sustained injuries to an eye in an earlier battle, but he apparently regained complete use of that eye. Claiming a blind eye was likely just an excuse to ignore his commanding officer’s orders. In any case, he did go on to win the Battle of Copenhagen, and the anecdote helped to further popularize the phrase “turning a blind eye.”

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Why Do We ‘Knock on Wood’?

With theories including ancient tree spirits and a children’s game, the origins of “knock on wood” are far less certain than you might think.

Knocking on wood

Someone who is superstitious may physically knock on wood — or simply say the phrase — as a way to ward off misfortune. While the precise expression “knock on wood” is an Americanism dating to the early 20th century, the origin of the concept is debated. There are theoretical ties to some ancient pagan and Christian beliefs, which gave rise to a similar phrase used in 19th-century Britain.

Some theorize the connection between wood and good fortune originated within ancient pagan cultures that believed good spirits resided in trees, and knocking on a tree trunk was a way to awaken those spirits and ask for protection. Others point to Christianity and the wooden cross on which Jesus was crucified; they theorize that knocking on wood is meant to request his protection. 

But still others deride both of these theories as unlikely. Authors Jacqueline Simpson and Stephen Roud are particularly critical of any ancient theories, saying the belief is a more modern invention. In A Dictionary of English Folklore, published in 2000, they write about a 19th-century children’s game called “tig-touch-wood,” in which touching wood provided players protection from being chased or tagged.

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Though the origins of this concept can be argued, we know that the idiom “touch wood” became popular in England during the 19th century, when it was often said aloud without a physical action to accompany it. The phrase later showed up inAmerica in the early 20th century, when it was adapted to “knock on wood” (though the reason for this shift in verbiage is unclear). A different version is popular in Italy: There they say “touch iron,” which is derived from a regional belief that strong, fire-forged metal wards off evil spirits.

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Why We Sometimes Have to Invent New Words

Sometimes there’s no word for a situation, and it calls for the coining of a new term. Nonce words are created to satisfy these needs.

by Jennifer A. Freeman
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Even though the English lexicon includes over half a million words, sometimes we need to make up a new one, just for a specific usage. These unique words are called nonce words.

“Nonce” is from the Middle English “nanes,” created through the misdivision (also known as rebracketing) of two words: “then anes,” meaning “for one purpose.”As an adjective, “nonce” did not appear in print until the 1884 publication of what became the Oxford English Dictionary. Its editor, James Murray, coined the term “nonce-word” for “words apparently employed for the nonce” (for one purpose).

Many words that fit that description existed much earlier, however. In the 1871 novel Through the Looking Glass, Lewis Carroll included about 20 nonce words in the nonsense poem “Jabberwocky”: brillig, outgrabe, mimsy, slithy, tove, frabjous, and frumious. Two of his nonce words have been added to the dictionary: galumph (“to move with a clumsy heavy tread”) and chortle (“to laugh or chuckle especially when amused or pleased”).

James Joyce similarly coined many nonce words for the 1922 modernist novel Ulysses. Among them: ringroundabout (“to completely surround something”), mrkgnao (“a cat’s meow”), smilesmirk (“one facial expression conveying both a smile and a smirk”), yogibogeybox (“the practice and accessories of spiritualism”), poppysmic (“lip smacking”), and rtststr (“a rat’s sound”).

More recently, Matt Groening and others coined humorous nonce words for The Simpsons, the longest-running American animated sitcom. They include lupper (“meal between lunch and supper”) and wordhole (“mouth”). Some of these Simpsons nonce words have become so widely used that they made it into the dictionary. Consider: meh (“used to express indifference or mild disappointment”), cromulent (“acceptable, satisfactory”), and embiggen (“to make bigger or more expansive”).

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Perhaps the best-known nonce word is from the 1964 movie Mary Poppins: supercalifragilisticexpialidocious, the sound of which, according to the lyrics, “is something quite atrocious” — but “if you say it loud enough you’ll always sound precocious.”

Writers for The Simpsons piggybacked on that sesquipedalian (“given to or characterized by the use of long words”) coinage: Professor Frink’s field of science is microcalifragilistics. 

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What Message Are You Sending With Flowers?

Flowers are more than beautiful. They have a long history of meanings that connote specific emotions and intentions. What is your spring bouquet really saying?

by Julia Rittenberg
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Spring is the perfect time to brush up on your floriography, which is the language of flowers, from the Latin flor, meaning “flower,” and the Greek graphia, meaning “writing.” Daffodils and tulips aren’t having conversations in the garden, but different blooms convey different feelings or intentions. Constructing a bouquet with a specific meaning was especially popular in Victorian times, but giving flowers has never gone out of style. Learning more about the language of flowers can help ensure you’re sending the right message with your arrangement, whether it’s for a first date, an anniversary, or even a rival. 

Scientific Names of Flowers

The names you might know for flowers don’t necessarily match their scientific names. The formal names follow the structure of binomial nomenclature set up by the Swedish botanist Carolus Linneaus. The 1753 book Species Plantarum established this naming system. Each two-word name classifies the genus and the species of the plant. Some common names are more obvious — roses are Rosa indica and gardenias are Gardenia jasminoides — while others have no connection between the common and scientific names. Daffodils, for example, are Narcissus pseudonarcissus, relating to the myth of Narcissus. 

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Floriography in Practice

Shortly after flora began to be classified under scientific names, additional meanings became attached to flowers. The practice of floral etiquette in Victorian times is well documented. During this era when manners were everything, flowers were a way of saying something that couldn’t be said out loud. A book published at the time, Language of Flowers by Kate Greenaway, tracks these important meanings. Greenaway, an artist and a writer, didn’t come up with these meanings, but she compiled the knowledge based on traditional usage of the flowers and the circumstances in which they were given. The meanings continued to develop based on elaborate Victorian etiquette practices, much like the other rules surrounding every social gathering.

The etiquette was especially important to know for those who were courting. If a suitor gave a young lady a red rose, signifying his romantic intentions, she could return to him a yellow carnation, which basically meant “leave me alone.”

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  • Daisy: Innocence, loyal love, purity
  • Daffodil: Regard, unequalled love
  • Poppy: Consolation
  • Gardenia: “You’re lovely,” secret love
  • Geranium: Stupidity, folly (either an apology for the giver’s behavior, or calling out the recipient’s actions, depending on how it was given)


Combinations of flowers made the meanings even more nuanced. In the case of the geranium, it might be paired with another flower signifying regret, further emphasizing an apology for bad behavior.

In cases where the flower comes in multiple colors, there’s an even larger lexicon. Red roses meant love, but dark crimson roses were for those in mourning. Giving a pink rose indicated perfect happiness, but if someone chose to hand over a yellow rose, that meant a decrease in love. 

Decoding a full bouquet — including the hand that delivered it, and its presentation — required a dictionary such as Greenaway’s guide. If someone handed over flowers or a bouquet upside down, it conveyed the opposite of what the flower usually meant. If the ribbon on the bouquet was tied to the right, that meant the message was the giver’s feeling. If the ribbon was tied to the left, the feelings were meant to be applied to the recipient.

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Today, giving flowers is a nice gesture, appropriate for all sorts of occasions and sentiments, from dates and anniversaries to “get well soon” wishes. Plants and succulents are also meaningful gifts that last longer than a vase of cut flowers. We don’t track the meanings as closely as they did then, but there’s one throughline between Victorian times and now: It’s the thought that counts. 

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7 MIN READ

Is Your Name in a Common Idiom?

Some idioms derive from the names of real and fictional people, giving us rich histories behind common turns of phrase.

by Stewart Edelstein
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An idiom is a common turn of phrase that has a metaphorical meaning different from the individual definitions of each of the words. For example, someone with a bleeding heart is not suffering a medical emergency, and actors aren’t actually wishing for their fellow cast members to break a leg. 

The magic of idioms is in their ability to compress a story into just a few words, and some of the most vivid such expressions in English are tied to names — of legendary heroes, historical figures, religious characters, and fictional creations. These names act as shorthand, instantly evoking a trait, situation, or outcome without needing much explanation.

What makes these idioms especially interesting is how their original stories are often far richer, or even quite different, than their modern usages suggest. Over time, details get simplified, lessons get blurred, and what remains is a memorable phrase. The following examples highlight how some name-based idioms came to be, and the surprising origins behind the expressions we still use today.

Achilles’ heel 

This idiom, using the name of the ancient Greek hero Achilles, refers to a weakness or vulnerable point. In Greek myth, Achilles’ mother, Thetis, dipped her infant son into the River Styx to make him immortal, holding him by the heel, which remained dry. During the Trojan War, he was killed when struck by a poisoned arrow in that vulnerable spot.

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Annie Oakley 

When someone mentions an Annie Oakley, they might be talking about a free ticket or pass — as in “I got an Annie Oakley for the festival.” Phoebe Anne Oakley Moses (1860-1926) was a featured performer in Buffalo Bill’s Wild West Show. She had the uncanny skill of shooting the spots out of playing cards. Those punched cards were similar to tickets that train conductors punched — proof of payment. And so, an Annie Oakley is a free ticket or pass. 

Between Scylla and Charybdis 

Greek myths are rife with idiomatic fodder, including this one, which describes being trapped between two equally difficult, even dangerous, choices. In Greek myth, Scylla was a monster living on one side of a narrow strait, and Charybdis was a whirlpool on the other side. To avoid Charybdis, sailors navigated closer to Scylla, who had an unquenchable appetite for devouring sailors. This myth is based on the narrow Strait of Messina between Italy and Sicily.

Doubting Thomas 

Call someone a doubting Thomas, and you’re saying they’re a skeptic. In the Book of John, the Apostle Thomas doubted the story of Jesus’ resurrection until he had proof. According to the New Testament, not until Thomas saw Jesus in the flesh, after his resurrection, were his doubts eliminated.

For Pete’s sake 

Invoke the name of Pete when you need to express frustration or annoyance. To avoid blasphemy, this substitute for “for Christ’s sake” evolved as a euphemism, alongside the similar idioms “for the love of Pete” and “in the name of Pete.” These idioms refer to St. Peter, one of the Twelve Apostles of Jesus, according to the New Testament.

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Hail Mary 

The 2026 space movie Project Hail Mary demonstrates the meaning of this idiom as a desperate, last-minute attempt that is probably unlikely to succeed. In the context of football, the term “Hail Mary pass” was coined by Notre Dame players in their 1922 win over Georgia Tech. Lineman Noble Kizer recited the Hail Mary prayer (to the Virgin Mary, asking for her intercession during a time of need) in the huddle before scoring two touchdowns. The idiom was further popularized in 1975, when Dallas Cowboys quarterback Roger Staubach used it to describe his desperate 50-yard pass with only 32 seconds remaining in the game, which gave the Cowboys a 17-14 win over the Minnesota Vikings.

Herculean task 

Use this idiom to describe any extremely difficult endeavor. According to Greek myth, Hercules was required to perform 12 superhuman tasks to atone for killing his family. These included cleaning the Augean Stables, uncleaned in 30 years; slaying a monstrous lion with impenetrable fur and razor-sharp claws; slaying the Lernaean Hydra, a fearsome multiheaded venomous monster; and capturing Cerberus, a multiheaded vicious dog.

John Hancock 

A lawyer might ask you to put your John Hancock on the dotted line, which is another way of requesting your signature. John Hancock (1736-1793) was the first person to sign the Declaration of Independence, doing so in large, bold handwriting. “There, John Bull [Britain] can read my name without spectacles,” he said. “Now let him double the price on my head, for this is my defiance.” Britain never did offer a bounty on Hancock, but his patriotic gesture gave rise to this idiom.

Midas touch 

Those with an uncanny ability to make money are said to have the Midas touch. Midas, a real eighth-century BCE king of Phrygia (now Turkey) has been immortalized in myth. As the story goes, he was very kind to Silenus, a satyr who was a companion of Dionysus, god of wine. As a reward, Dionysus granted Midas one wish. The king’s wish was to have the power to turn anything he touched into gold. It seemed like a great idea, until Midas realized, to his horror, that his wish had been taken literally: Every single thing he touched, including his food, drink, and even his daughter, did turn into gold. Realizing his mistake, Midas asked Dionysus to reverse the gift, and he did so — but that lesson is lost in this idiom.

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Murphy’s law 

Murphy’s law promises that anything that can go wrong will go wrong — or at least it seems that way on a bad day. Edward Murphy was a U.S. Air Force captain and aeronautical engineer. In 1949, he worked as a lead scientist on a project to test human endurance against extreme deceleration, as in high-speed emergency aircraft ejections. Those tests worked only if accelerometer sensors were installed correctly. In one test, they were mistakenly installed incorrectly. This idiom comes from that experience when it seemed like nothing could go right.

Pandora’s box 

Someone opening Pandora’s box — perhaps by bringing up a touchy subject or taking a seemingly innocent action with unforeseen consequences — is unleashing a whole host of potential problems. According to myth, Pandora, the first mortal woman, was married to Epimetheus, Titan brother of Prometheus. He gave her a large jar (not a box), with explicit instructions not to open it. Intrigued, Pandora opened the jar anyway, releasing the world’s evils. The last thing released, though, was hope. The lesson, lost in this idiom, is that even in hardship, hope can carry us through the worst of times.

Sadie Hawkins dance 

A Sadie Hawkins dance is an old-fashioned tradition where girls would ask boys to a dance (instead of the other way around). The expression can be traced back to cartoonist Al Capp, who started his “Li’l Abner” comic strip, set in the fictional Appalachian town of Dogpatch, Kentucky, in 1934. In 1937, Capp created a town race so that Sadie Hawkins (“the homeliest gal in all them hills”) could marry. In that race, men got a head start, but any man Sadie caught before sundown had to marry her. This popular story is the basis for the Sadie Hawkins dance.

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