Sometimes one little letter can completely change the meaning of a phrase. For example, a “meet and greet” with your favorite author is a whole lot more vegan-friendly than when the local butcher holds a “meat and greet.” One letter also makes all the difference when it comes to the terms “with regard” and “with regards.” That tiny “s” at the end not only changes the meaning, but also determines how you should use each expression. Let’s take a look at the differences.
“Regard” (without the “s”) is a homophone with multiple meanings. When used as a verb with an object, it means “to consider or think of (someone or something) in a specified way.” When used as a verb without an object, it simply means “to pay attention.” “Regard” can also be used as a noun that refers to a particular aspect of something, as in, “He was extremely detailed about his work in that regard.” “Regards” (with the “s”) is far more simple in its intention, and is generally only used to convey “best wishes.” (Just remember chorus singers belting out, “Give my regards to Broadway,” if you forget the difference.)
There is one specific instance, however, where things can get a bit jumbled. Generally, if you’re trying to express concerns about a specific topic, the correct phrase would be “in/with regard to.” However, a less common, yet technically correct usage would be “as regards.” This one little switch is probably the reason that people get confused about when to use the “s” and when to drop it.
The easiest way to remember which phrase is needed is to consider the context. The phrase “with regard to” mostly pops up in business or professional contexts, while “with regards” is used if you’re signing off at the end of a get-well card or thank-you note. Keep those guidelines in mind and you’ll never mix up the two phrases again.
